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Beneath the Tantrum

Conscious Discipline and Emotional Regulation for 1-6 year olds

"My 3 year old daughter will now sometimes realise when she is dysregulated and will ask me to sit with her to breath or snuggle. When I feel that she's not cooperating I ask myself what does she need instead of snapping and it's just beautiful how as soon as the need is met she is back to her cooperative self." - online course participant

Understanding what is beneath your child’s emotions is the key to unlocking your parenting power.

Conscious Parenting is about looking at what is beneath the surface, it’s about working hard on what truly matters. It’s about pointing our own compass toward growth and knowing that the decisions we make today are with our long term goals in mind. It’s not about quick fixes and short term gain, it’s about really doing the work. In this course, I will offer a neuroscientific based approach to understanding what’s under your child’s big feelings. By the end of it, you’ll be welcoming the tears with open arms! And this is what will lead to more connection, cooperation and calmness in your home. Written by experienced Family Psychologist, Ashleigh Warner, "Beneath the Tantrum" is a comprehensive yet digestible course that integrates neuroscience and conscious parenting so that you and your family have the tools to flourish throughout the toddler years.

By taking this course you will

  • Cultivate inner confidence and reclaim your ability to manage big emotions

  • Develop knowledge about a holistic approach to discipline that doesn't damage connection

  • Understand what is beneath challenging behaviours and learn how to deal with the cause not the symptom

  • Learn about the long term impacts of consequences, punishments, rewards and praise

  • Become aware of your own emotions and system, triggers and pain patterns and how this impacts your child

  • Learn how to manage tantrums so that they return your child to a calm and cooperative state

What's Included:

31 Video Lessons, 10 Worksheets, 12 Information Sheets

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Course Outline

Module 1 : Relationship

Subconscious Preprogramming

The 6 Stages of Attachment

Connection is not Attention


Module 2 : Understanding the Nervous System

Understanding our Nervous Systems

Challenging Behaviour is Nervous System Dysregulation

Your Toddler's Brain


Module 3 : Emotional Regulation

Co-regulation

Understanding your own Triggers and Pain Patterns

Caregiver Regulation

Managing Triggers in the Moment

Regulating Children


Module 4 : Boundaries

The 6 Pillars of Conscious Discipline 

Adult Boundaries

Consequences, Punishments, Rewards and Praise

How to Know which Boundaries to Set

What to Reflect on when Boundaries get Pushed

What to Avoid

How to set Effective Boundaries

How to Maintain Boundaries with Respect

Collaboration & Problem Solving

Scenarios


Module 5 : Emotional Expression

Reframing Tantrums as an Emotional Release

The ways Children Manage pent up Feelings

Managing Pent up Feelings with Aggression

Managing Pent up Feelings with Repression

What to Avoid - Unintentionally Shutting down an Emotional Release

Releasing Emotions through Play and Laughter

Managing Tears and Raging by being C.L.E.A.R.

Scenarios


Module 6 : When it Doesn't go to Plan

Rupture and Repair for Adults

Rupture and Repair for Children

Meet your Instructor

Ashleigh Warner, Family Psychologist

Ashleigh Warner is a Family Psychologist with ten years of experience working with families around emotional regulation and relationships. She is a registered psychologist in Australia and combines attachment theory, neuroscience and eastern based philosophies to create her approach.
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FAQ

  • What age range is this course targeted at?

    This course and the examples included are aimed at children aged between 1 and 6 years old.

  • How long do I have access to the material?

    The course material is yours to keep. There is a lot of information packed in there so you can continue to revisit it as many times as you like.

  • How long is the course?

    The course is about 6 hours long, it is however, broken down into short lessons so that you can watch it in more manageable chunks.

  • Can I buy the course in currencies other than Australian Dollar?

    Yes! The price is set in AUD but the payment system is powered by stripe which will take all currencies.

Testimonials

"It was a completely profound shift. My husband noticed the peace and calm, and it inspired him to also take a listen to the videos and discuss the material together. And although I noticed that my new knowledge would be an ongoing practice, I was able to identify triggers and exercise control over my reactions in order to avoid causing situations to escalate."


"Thank you so much!! I am loving this course so so much. And yesterday, after an atypical frustrating day, my husband actually asked why our daughter was behaving the way she was and what he could do (which has not happened before) and listened for an hour as we talked about the course! And he was genuinely interested and appreciative! This is a miracle!! Thank you so much. You are helping our family so much. I am so grateful to you."


"My 3 year old daughter will now sometimes realise when she is dysregulated and will ask me to sit with her to breath or snuggle. When I feel that she's not cooperating I ask myself what does she need instead of snapping and it's just beautiful how as soon as the need is met she is back to her cooperative self."


"So much improvement in my relationship with my kids has occurred since starting the course, we are all much more regulated, connected and peaceful."


"Considering the profound element of sub-conscious reprogramming really hits home for me, and makes me feel inspired to look more deeply at our home environment and patterns of behaviour present. To work on actively passing down wisdom, not wounds, to my son. Thank you for sharing!"